I believe every fashion lover own a sun-kissed shoulders maxi dress for the summer because a simple slip maxi dress is reigning supreme. It's all about low maintenance styling here. The frilled gold shiny dress from Zara is really works well in my wardrobe. In this post, finish the look with front zip top and my favorite timeless ankle boots (I'm truly a boots fans!). I means, let's style our slip dress with interesting top instead of tees!
Zara Dress / Zara Top / Ann Demeulemeester Boots
Having some fun in the summer? Yes, I did! Before I go further, this indeed is a collaborative post, but my reviews are absolutely my own, as always. The IT cosmetics Your Skin But Better CC Cream helps my skin stay hydrated and protected with full coverage, water resistant, physical-only SPF 50+ for a healthy glow all summer long! The main reason I highly recommending this IT brand because it blends skin care and make up together to provide you with high-performance products which complements your skin.
New ways of wearing, and new ways of planning. It's all about doing things in new ways. I needed something different - a new ways of wearing my favorite pieces. The J.W. Anderson neckband is the first J.W. Anderson piece I bought, I am utterly in love with it! And you see, I find it is not hard to style, for me it's so that simple to create a different style on your daily look.
J.W. Anderson Neckband / Zara Top / Zara Trousers / Ann Demeulemeester Boots
DKNY has launched a limited edition #DxKxNxYx sweatshirt capsule collection. Don't you think the slogan sweatshirt made up the fun collection?
#DxKxNxYx "Don't Knock New York" sweatshirt / Lah Lah Land ripped jeans / Converse sneakers /
Rockin all white is alright!
This post is not about how to be a selfish jerk. I still believe that thinking on behalf of other people can bring you a lot of satisfaction. But the cruel fact is that not everyone is grateful. Sometimes when you put others before yourself, the result you get may be unexpected. What's the point of always being the one who gives but receive no gratitude in return? To put in clearer words, you can still help people but make sure to always keep this reminder to yourself : To make others happy, you have to be happy.
It's really important to stay happy and look on the bright side, don't waste any chance to make the best out of your life. You can't cheer anyone up if you are in a shitty mood. And yes, putting yourself first before others is considered to be selfish, but if you think long term, doing what makes you feel good actually works out best for everyone, so why don't do it once in a while? You should save yourself from disappointment.
Secondly, your health comes first. It is important to take good care of yourself. Spending too much time looking out for other people and receive no gratitude is kind of like a slow-suicide. For example, I've skipped my meals to clean my best friend's mess, and now I'm suffering from stomachache. You get what I'm trying to say? There are times where others should be absolutely put first, but there are also times when you should save yourself from taking risk of your health.
You need to understand the reason behind your selffishness first. We are all human, we all have flaws. What I have learned from my lesson is we should help others but we should not sacrifice our happiness and health for others.
Third, not all types of selfishness are harmful. If a poor father managed to grab some food and keeps it to himself without sharing it, you really can't call him selfish cause he can't provide better for his family. It all depends on the circumstances. If a rich man doesn't even share a little bit of his food with a hungry poor kid, than he really is a selfish man. You need to realize the reason behind your selfish behavior. It is okay to be a bit selfish.
Lastly, you'll have better relationships. Being selfish in a relationship isn't a bad thing. To be a healthy, grounded person, you need to be selfish. If you still act like a naive girl, "I do all these things for you - I'll fulfill all of your needs - so that you'll then give me love,'' your relationship is vulnerable. The best relationships happen when two adults show up and appreciate each other.