Evangelne: I cut my hair short

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Opps you already know from the title. I wanted to transcend my hair and yes I did it. It's like a big change. Remember when I was a teenager in the eighties, I had long braids that I refused to cut because I fancied myself Avril Lavigne and the main reason is boys liked long hair, and I wanted to be liked by boys. But when I really thought about it, I wanted to be the girl with the short hair. I wanted to be Rihanna in Good Girl Gone Bad album. I wanted to be Anna Hathaway in One Day movie. I wanted to be Emma Watson with the short hair. But I was like losing my gut. I was scared. We all know that long hair on a woman is more attractive to most, that just how it is, and I was struggling with the dilemma. Until one night I had a weirdest dream, there was a man (a stranger but he is hot) shouted to me, "Go for it! I think you could pull it off very well and the cut you chose is HOT! You should rock short hair if you really want!" The next day, I walked into Brandon's salon and asked him to cut it short. Here is how I turned my hair to short. Sounds weird I know. I am not trying to ask you girls cut your hair short. I think there are very less women who can't pull off short hair. Maybe you've had a bad cut or more than that in your life? Or you are afraid of you wont be as attractive to men? Here is the deal, I had it all cut off, now I would never tell someone to keep long hair, because I know it can be a pain and need to put more efforts to take care. So basically what I'm trying to say is don't care what other people think, if you want to cut your hair, just do it. There is no reason to put up with something you don't want or like just for others. Yes it's true a bunch of men who currently find a woman's attractive with long hair may not find her attractive with short hair. It's true there possibly are more men out there who prefer long hair then men like me who prefer shorter hair. However, I finally understand. A man shouldn't attract by the appearance, a real man shouldn't attract by the true heart. Remember my quote, Guys' opinions vary. Trust your own opinion. 




XOXO



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  1. I'm planning to cut my hair short too,but I don't really have the guts to do so.But after reading your words I'm willing to try it out :) Thanks.

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  2. You looks cool with your current hairstyle! Well said

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  3. Love between two different sex and sex both are unreal, buddhist Sage Hue Quang. There are many ways to explain them. The most simple and undeniable ones are:
    a. LOVE BETWEEN TWO DIFFERENT SEX IS UNREAL because the mind is unreal. Everyone’s mind is unreal and that mind is just a contaminated form of real Buddha mind. Everyone has a Buddha mind and this Buddha mind is the only thing that everyone owns in the cycles of rebirth, nothing else. Everyone owns good karma or bad karma that they make too but after they get the fruits of good karma and pay the fruits of bad karma then all the karma is gone.
    b. SEX IS UNREAL because the body is unreal. Nobody can keep this body when they die, next life they will have a new body.
    Love and sex are unreal, yet they can make many people waist lot of time, money, efforts, making bad karma, even go crazy for them. I say NO to love between to different sex and sex because they are just unreal. Don’t pay attention to the lady in silver suit on top of my website. I don’t ask you to pay me anything because Dharma should be free. Hue Quang

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